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Recommended E-Book
Mastery Guide to Saving Marriage And Stopping Divorce
by Dr. Katie Zaltman, et. al.
The right to marriage is the right to bind oneself by a promise.
The right to bind oneself is the right to deny oneself the right to break free.
Resolving Marital Crisis and Affairs
Marital Crisis and Affairs need immediate attention because people often make their most serious and damaging mistakes in the initial moments of marital crisis and great pain . At times like this, don’t blame yourself or lose hope. Get help quickly and calm down the panic. Consider the following e-books:
- Mastery Guide to Saving Marriage and Stopping Divorce by Dr. Katie Zaltman, et. al.
- Keep Your Marriage by Nancy Wasson, Ph.D.
- If there is an affair involved, Break Free From The Affair by Dr. Bob Huizenga is an E-Book that specializes in dealing with extramarital affairs.
Relationship Improvement
50 Secrets of Blissful Relationships is one of the first e-books I read regarding helping marriages survive and thrive. It came with 50 More Secrets, and I immediately printed both books off to read them cover to cover. If your marriage is so-so, boring, or just not as healthy as it should be, it would be wise to get this e-book soon. If you can find ways to bring happiness, it makes no sense to wait until misery becomes unbearable when happiness can be restored sooner. Right?
Some other good e-books to consider are 300 Creative Dates and the collection which contains this E-Book. as well as other excellent e-books.
Premarital Questions
A very high percentages of divorces could be prevented if couples would prepare for marriage ahead of time by going through some premarital questions together. 1000 Questions for Couples is an excellent place to start, and this can be purchased alone or as a part of the whole collection recommended above
These questions are fun and they can help you get to know your partner before you marry, though they can be very helpful after marriage as well for opening up and keeping open lines of communication and keeping your marriage happy and successful.
Wise Dating Practices
Many people who come to this web site may wish they had read this before getting married, but don’t lose hope. The Relationship Improvement section below can help. But, dating practices can lead to great marriages or disastrous ones. If you are single and looking for a partner, pray for wisdom and start working on a list, but rather than working on a preferences list, work on a list of things you would want to eliminate. For example, you may want to include drug abuse, promiscuity, violent temper, gambling, excessive drinking, and such. You may what to rule out certain religious differences, and then trust this list.
The best place to find someone is in your church or in a place where you are working on your primary purpose or calling in life whatever that is. Then to learn how to approach people and how do date safely and how to keep a relationship happy and healthy for life, I would recommend A Better Way To Date or better yet, if you can swing it, Michael Webb’s Relationship Collection.
Prayer
Many people speak of power in prayer, and yet many feel frustration in prayer. I don’t know of any e-books that can be purchased and downloaded online for this, but the following books are excellent:
The important thing is to realize that God loves you and your spouse and your family very dearly, and if your heart is broken because something is wrong with your marriage, God’s heart is broken, too, and it would be His great joy to bless you and your family. But, the hard thing to accept is that things may not go in the way you wish them to go at all and you may be headed for a tremendous tribulation ahead. But, God would never let that happen unless it was necessary in order to bring about some greater good.
So, the important thing is to do something that may be very hard, and that is to trust God with everything, to seek Him in prayer, to seek His wisdom for what to do and even for what to pray for. God has a whole storehouse of answers to prayer all prepared in advance and waiting for us to be in a right relationship with Him to receive those answers to prayer.
God bless you and take care,
Daniel J. Dick
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